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Easing into our new reality

4/23/2020

 
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We have all found ourselves in an involuntary, collective pause. Life events such as weddings, birthdays, anniversaries, and funerals have either been put on hold, canceled or revised. Work life has changed in ways we couldn’t have imagined even a few short weeks ago. We have had to rapidly learn new ways of being as social distancing, mask wearing, and sheltering in place have become the norm.

Our adrenalin has helped us through the initial burst of crisis adaptation.
Now what?
Catastrophes tend to have a rhythm. There’s the initial survival mode where everyone is simply trying to figure out how to protect themselves and their families, then there’s a rush of effort that gradually settles into a patched-together routine.
 
Then comes the hard part… learning to live with your new reality.
 
With the initial flurry of activity over, tension and stress can start to ratchet up which is why compassion, kindness, and patience are essential for navigating this phase.
 
Here are two tools to help you move forward with more confidence and ease.
Get to know your triggers.

​We all have triggers that set up for reactionary behaviors. Any of your senses such as sight, sound, touch, taste, memory, can spark a knee jerk response that seems so automatic that it often feels like an unchangeable characteristic (the good news is that it’s not!).  
 
One of the easiest ways to learn more about your own triggers is to make a list. Write down every time you react to a situation in a way that doesn’t feel good to you. For example, you might notice that every time you get a call from a certain person your default response is to eat a box of cookies, or you might notice that when you feel like you did something wrong you have a tendency to lash out in anger.
 
As you gain an understanding for your triggers, it becomes easier to make empowered responses (even in difficult situations) that reflect your highest self.
You always have a choice. 
 
Viktor Frankl sums up this concept better than I ever could when he said:
“Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.”
Choosing your own way through chaos and uncertainty is not easy to do because chaos breeds confusion and lack of clarity. So, if you want to shift from feeling out of control and into more clarity use curiosity to break through the confusion.
 
Here are a few inquiry questions to ask yourself…
  • What do I most need in this moment?
  • What would be the most loving thing I could do for myself?
  • What is the most empowered action I could take?
  • Are my current thoughts and/or behaviors bringing me peace? What do I need in order to shift to more positive ones?

​And remember, when life has been turned upside down it is perfectly natural to fall apart every now and then so most importantly be kind and gentle with yourself. I leave you with a final quote from Viktor Frankl whose words once again say it best:
“An abnormal reaction to an abnormal situation is normal behavior.”

Will you be proud of how you responded to the Covid-19 crisis?

4/1/2020

 
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​These are some crazy times. With mass closings of schools, theme parks, events, and gathering places we face unprecedented upheaval to our schedules and plans. Suddenly, what we pictured our next month to look like has been upended and we are needing to adapt and process the ever-changing information that is coming from every direction. 
 
All of this is a perfect storm for stress and anxiety.
 
Into this mix I offer the reminder that NOTHING is permanent. And, I have a question for you: when the crisis is over, will you be proud of how you responded? In the past week as I have watched my own emotions fluctuate with the uncertainty and confusion, I realized the moments where I was most stressed or agitated were when I focused on outward things that I have no control over, rather than inward on myself and what I can do.
 
To shift out of panic-mode and into solution-mode start by asking yourself “who do I want to be during this time and how do I want to show up?” In a crisis, to think of yourself first is a natural response; however, staying caught in this scarcity mindset will prevent you from helping others while keeping you focused on the problems. This leads to feeling hopeless, demotivated, isolated and paralyzed, which makes it much harder to see what is possible.
 
If you find yourself caught in the chaos, here are a few practical ways to reground:
| Focus on what you do have.
When there’s a hoarding frenzy it can cause feelings of insecurity and trigger a sense that if you don’t jump into the fray you will be left behind. It makes sense to stock up on a few staples so that you limit your contact with the outside world, but then also take a moment to appreciate everything you do have, it’s probably more than you realize.
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| Connect with a phrase or mantra that     helps you reconnect with yourself.
When I notice I am feeling stressed I like to use the familiar: “And this too shall pass” as a reminder that I am not always going to feel this way. By redirecting my focus I give myself the power to shift how I’m feeling.
| Do something new to engage your mind. Here are a few suggestions:
  • Teach yourself something new, like how to make this soup. It's a Greek lentil and spinach soup which looks easy and delicious and is what I will be making for dinner tonight!
  • Start learning a new language, Duolingo is perfect for this. There are also many online options offered through local libraries.
  • Write an old-fashioned letter to someone. If you know anyone who is feeling isolated during this time, receiving a thoughtful letter could be especially meaningful.
  • Do a project you’ve been putting off like cleaning out the garage, organize a closet, paint a room. The sense of accomplishment when it’s done will go a long way to feeling positive and proactive.
| Find a balance between being informed
​  and being obsessive.

While it’s important to stay up to date with relevant, useful information you will only increase your stress if you don’t give yourself a break from the news!
​With a few simple shifts in mindset and behaviors we can get through this crisis more quickly, and with the knowledge that we showed up for ourselves and others with love and compassion. And for heaven’s sake (that was one of my grandmom’s favorite expressions so it makes me smile when I use it) share your toilet paper with someone who needs it.
 
Wishing you peace and excellent health!
Janna

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    Welcome!  I help people who are ready to live FULL-OUT.  People who are no longer willing to compromise their happiness and are motivated to do what it takes to live a life they love.  Small changes have a huge impact and this blog is about taking one step at a time to create your most amazing life! I look forward to connecting with you soon.
         - Janna

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